We met people not by Coincidence but for us to WAKE UP ! 7 Life Lessons with Eyki :)

My life is moving around as you noticed and what is the reason Why I keep doing this and not coming come- that is when I met people and I will hear some lessons and stories on how they deal in their life. For me, it makes me excited and feels awe on how life turns sadness into happiness in that quick trans.

Eyki and I are roommates in Double K hostel, Johor Bahru Malaysia. She is 10 years older than me (I know she looks younger, beautiful and smart. She is married with 2 kids and yes happily married, sorry boys! (:P) So Eyki is a freelance stylist who was attending a class in Johor Bahru, and me of course - I am working as a digital nomad nerd who usually mumbles, that is why I am into writing since then. I always express my feelings through writing and so if there will be a day that I wrote about you, it means you have an impact to my life that I want to share into the world that those kindness/ lesson needs to be shared- to inspire others that this world is still a better place.

7 Life Lessons By Eyki :)

1. I never graduated with a degree so I work hard so much into my life because I know that "Working hard is the only way for me to have a successful life in the future". Someday somehow you will realize that if you stay good and just work hard, one day you will be surprised how the Universe will bless you.

2. Focus one passion and be good at it. Because we are not powerful enough to do all things, once you focus one passion and master on like you stay 8 years of it, one day people will ask your service to do it for them in exchange of money because they know that is your forte. In short, do not always jump to a different job. Yes, when I was young I was also like that because when you are young you still do not know what jobs that make you happy until you found the one job that you think it is a passion then put all your time on it.

3. If you will get married one day, Do not buy cheap things to yourself if it is necessary. Do not deprive yourself because you have a family. Love yourself more so you have enough love to share with your husband and kids.

4. When you give birth to a child one day this is what will happen- the mind and the womb are connected and it is like only the mind and womb are working together in that 9 months and YOU CANNOT CONTROL IT. But when you gave birth, that is gone that is why usually woman who gave birth will have depression because they do not know how to control their self anymore in all things because in 9 months it was gone.

5. Someday somehow you will meet a person who will maybe your teacher, competitor, friend and be careful as some other people will come just to ruin your life. But you cannot blame them, stay kind that is their role in this life and you being aware of it- share more love. As love is what we all wanted in this world. That is the greatest feeling to have.

6. When I was young, my parents brought me to my grandparents to live with them in the countryside, I enjoy cooking tadpoles and when my grandma saw me she scared me that maybe the frog will come and get me!  I step on lizards, duck, and rat. They are all killed, but it was they who come to me to reach their final destination. ( This is funny right? but why it is a lesson, you have the mission in this world and she thinks her mission is helping those animals to reach their final destination, hahahah)

7. When you met someone, listen. In listening, you learn more than talking. It will help you to make more friends. When you are so clever talking to your friends, they find you weird so listening is better.

I really wanted to have a video of all what we are talking about but I do not want to distract her as she was driving, also most of the good conversation is not captured by the camera.

Additional lesson by Eyki : Go to the small restaurant that is prepared my grannies, aside it is cheap, It is YUMMY!

I cannot be more thankful to this blessed wonderful woman Eyki who gave me a ride here in Melaka plus life lesson. See you soon and THANK YOU SO MUCHHH EYKIII! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! Always remember when those dark days will come, I am one call away.. and remember when the rain was so hard and it is like 3 seconds after the rain stops? that is how usually life is. It is a crazy, messy, big problem - but that too will pass!

I wish these lessons will help you to understand about life like how I am grateful enough.

We met people not by chance but for us to wake up both to learned and what we have to stop or what we need to continue :)

SHALOM!