How to start to follow what you want? my 7 steps you have to take

When people noticed that you are above to them or let's say you are doing what they want in their life- they will send you a message out of the blue. I am not mad about it, but what if I am not sharing my life, people for sure would not care to give me a message. 

My reason of sharing my journey- is to give light to those who are in darkness, to give hope to all dreamers that there is still a chance to get what do you want, but then it takes time and effort, actually many things but I will try to sum it up in 7 items.

I will give you a little background that gives me a foundation why I became like this. In our family I am the 3rd siblings among 5. Usually my siblings are not playing with me because they are too old and too young for me, I am glad my neighbor Matet was there as my childhood company and best friend.

So most of the time I play with kids outside of my house, though before 6 pm I have to be inside of our home. There were times that I also had a problem of people, when I used to attach to people I always ask the Universe to see them again. I remember my cousin Resnie when we became close and when she left there was no one day I looked up to the sky and asking to see her again. I am really like that. No one is teaching me to do it, but naturally I did. I believe in stars, moon, sun, stone- general nature. There were times when I pee outside of our home when I was little and I asked the universe that my wish will come true. Also, I remember when my family and I went to a holiday in Bohol- on our way to the family we visit, I looked up the sky and talked to the moon and stars that hopefully we will end up in a beautiful rich house. I know I am very picky, but why not? Isn't it?

I believe that we choose our life based on our choices and so I respect to whatever situation you are in now, because that is the life you wanted and it is there because you attract on it.

So from the beginning that I can consider I am aware of my own thought- I am a nature believer, I believe that all your wish will come true, I believe that whatever you want the Universe will respect on it, and yes I really believe in Miracles.

Looking back 7 years ago where I encounter the quick crazy transition of my life - that is when my father had a stroke and the doctor open his head.  That was the time I can't even remember any single formula of my engineering course, I can't draw properly as my hand turns into so shaky, and it turns out that I asked the Universe that - Save my father and now you can lead my life as you really wanted.

After I let go of me becoming an Engineer as my dream because my father is an Engineer and I want to prove that I am a woman but still I can. That was the time that I am thankful enough that without it the life that I am experiencing right now perhaps this life wont happened.

Of all things happened always consider that there is a reason behind why it should happen and one day you will thank about it. Right now you will not understand it but one day you will.

So yes too much story cards of my life and I will get to my point now- 

- the 7 tips of process that will take you to what road you wanted.

By the way, after I let go my Engineering dream profession, I honestly do not know where I am going, but I know I am going somewhere and at that moment I just enjoy the process and do what I really love.

1. The Secret - link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f3isjlvccc0 (copy and paste)

- watch this as many as you can until your mind will believe that everything is in attraction.

2. Surround yourself with the right people- who only believes you and gives you positive energy

- When I was 17 years old that was the time I left home and surround myself with people who are positive in life and who never doubt in your capacity that who will say you are doing a good job even you think it is really not. I thank the people in UNO training and people and Pink Manila hostel that gives me that energy and confidence that in Life- You can manifest your own life.

* It was mommy liv didriksen-Matic, that I know who have seen how I started to dream, to fail, to cry, to the times I am so messed when people hates me and I felt no one else- it was she who will give you that hug that confidence that love- that it is all okay. Thank you mom, I love you!!!! Hope to see you soon in Denmark :)

3. Open yourself to all opportunities along the way as long as it is legal and moral.

- Yes, I am picky, yes, we should of course, but then back when I was young without a degree, without a proper document or credentials- I have no choice but to work the job that pays not that much but enable me to live- like to eat and sleep. But one thing I always consider all opportunities - is it legal? Is it a moral job? When Pink Manila opportunity had come- I tell you I started to clean toilets, rooms, cleaning sheets including laundry, going to cash and carry for grocery, cleaning the pool with my short hand that end me up swimming (as if I can, okay walking inside the pool) to pick the fallen leaves or garbage, also washing dishes- before I was a cook and receptionist at the same time. Which means you have to be in the low position first to gain experience before you can demand to be on top and live what life you wanted. As it is paying the price first.

* Be ready to pay the price of your dreams,. Free cheese can only be found in a mousetrap. - Paulo Coelho

4. Follow people who have results in your dream. 

- For me it is bizarre to listen to a person that this is how the way it is- but then when you check his or her life- he or she is not even into it. 

In the example my teacher back in my marketing and management course is talking about business is a good way to earn money than employment, but then when I asked her if she got business she said she do not have. Totally freaked me out. This is insane. If you now wonder if I am telling the truth, you can ask my classmates about this. With respect to my teacher who never failed me beside of my so honest question- I therefore won't mention her name.

So yes, why listen to people who even never been there? Are you kidding me? How can you teach if you never even been there? To me you are talking gibberish, Sorry.

5. What your 5 senses are into makes who you are.

- what you see, hear, touch, smells, taste is what makes you who you are. If you watch drama films about broken families, failed relationships- then that will happen to you to maybe not now but it will one day. So be careful!

About what your taste- if you are eating not healthy foods, then that will generate to your body and I do not think junk food will make you think creative and grateful to have a life as for sure you will feel sick for the sometimes- as yes it is not healthy from the very first place.

What you hear, it is the same to what you watch - if you always hear negative music or words, then of course that will register in your mind and your mind will believe about it and that will manifest in your life.

Smells, you may think smell is not that big deal, but actually smelling is the way how your emotion works- imagine if you smell the rotten egg, do you think you will smile and feel good? I do not think so.

Books that will help you to train your mind

- A New Earth "Awakening to your life's purpose" by Eckhart Tolle

- Buddhist BootCamp by Timber Hawkeye

- Bo Sanchez Books 

-Paulo Coelho books

If you are not strong enough to be that positive in a negative environment- be brave to change your environment, Migrate! - to where you think you will have the positive aura!

6. Make a dream visual board

-  In that board you paste all you want to happen in your life, I tell you when you achieve your dream it will make you cry the moment that you are about to leave because you are going to that dream place you want to visit.

- So I post Singapore pictures when I am 17 years old when I had my dream board and when I am 22 years old I fly to Singapore plus Indonesia then Malaysia. You have no idea what kind of happiness I had before looking to my dream board.

You have to visualize it first and believe in it before it will happen! Imagine it takes me 5 years before seeing my dream, but at least it happened!

7. In times you want to give up, Do something to feel Good!

- There are times that the journey we wanted is not happening yet, but it is good as you can recognize about it. It is up to you if you give up or chase on it. But feeling good will attract all positive opportunities and that is the law of the Universe. If singing a song or dancing will make you happy and feel good. Do it!

You can sing, dance, work out, run, watch comedy films, and meditate!!!

I will talk more about meditation in my next blog :)

Also, The Universe will test you first if you really want it to make sure that if it is given to you- you won't take it for granted.

*Think about this. If you are a father of a 10 year old boy and your little boy is asking for a Lamborghini, will you buy it? When you know he is not capable and ready yet? The Universe also likes that- The Universe will give something to you that He knows you can manage it and will not put you any harm.

*If you believe in Jesus that is how I believe the Universe as general.

I wish I made sense, but if I don't, I won't force you. Time is subject to its right time.

Enjoy your day! 

Be present!

Big HUGS,

RHODEGETTE JOYCE ALDAVE IDUL

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