7 thoughts I learned these shitty days

Me with the Myanmar Flag as this country did something that makes me laugh, cry,shout at the same time

I don't know why all these happened but I know that this should happened haha

Hey everyone I am back.  I know I told to my social post that I would share my life in videos but I think I am more comfortable to share my thoughts through typing on my laptop- so I hope you understand that my sharing into videos will take time for sure but yes will give a try that one day.

I was and still a writer and love sharing stories today and I think before my amazing mind will forget all the things I just think about now, I will of course do it now.

The Locals of Myanmar in a first bus stop after I was declined to cross the border of Maesot

Honestly, I can't imagine that I would be overstayed in a country for about 25 days and hopefully just that and will not continue anymore, hoping I can make it tomorrow.

The guy whom I met in Yangon Airport when I landed in Myanmar that made my Myanmar trip easy and fun. Wish you subscribed him on his youtube channel at lostXpat. Actually this guy is a big HELP to me that I think will write a blog all about him. 

The reasons why this I am overstayed and what happened why it takes so much time for me to cross? well, I can enumerate why based on my perspective but I will save it for sharing after I can make to fly tomorrow. 

The moon that never failed me to smile in the darkness! I know I had many photos that are still not shared from my camera but it will be one day.

There are things we cannot control where we can do is keep doing what we can do to fix that uncontrollable situation that we called problems that after applying so many formula we can't just say I will give up because there is no way out but GET THAT RIGHT OUT NO MATTER WHAT!

Too many attempts I did, but looks the Universe want me to learn something I shouldn't forget.

Here are the top 7 thoughts I learned these shitty days.

1. I know it is too much, I know I wanted to cry- but crying won' solve anything.

- I had many times that I wanted to cry but I think I am out of water to make it happened or maybe I just had the right people who reminds me that it won't solve anything.

2. There are rules or laws in different places and what you have to do is to follow them or checked it out first before deciding based on your feelings. Do not rely to your, I THOUGHT! GET THE FACTS!

- I thought its the same in Cambodia but hello I am in Myanmar, so yes it is not the same.

3. Be friends to everyone even to your enemies because not friends are your friends and some enemies are actually a friend.

-Believe me or not you thought to let go the person you had enough before but they sometimes helped you out because they understand you as they have been there too.

-I thanked to the people who hated me but still able to helped me out of my situation

This girl was my rescuer after I arrived in a long journey with a declined certificate crossing the border. I loved how she helped me these days. Jesuba my friend! You are amazing! P.s We are not enemy to this girl, shes a lovely girl that Robee and I helped out to find a laundry shop in Mandalay.

4. Take a rest!

- it means be patient, if it doesn't work out yet never forget to give yourself a break and when you do mostly that is the time when the time will happened. If it is not happening yet, still give a rest, do not put your emotions to all situations- keep in mind that what will make the situation difference is when you put the right attitude in all situations.

This little cute puppy we saw before Robee and I went to the lake last 15th. Absolutely my feeling now.

- I wanted to shout- but I stay in a hostel and I do not want to disturb peaceful spirit just because I got a shit day and so I get a room and do what makes me happy.

5. Talk to people that are there in your worst 

- I can't mentioned more but there are 2 people that I can rely to all my situations

a. Mommy Liv- who never fails to check me and help me to sort things out without saying " it's my fault, go home, " but instead help me to get back the positivism in all situations, mommy liv, I love you and thank you so much

b. Doctor Neher- who will be there to tell you- Do not worry about your work, relax you are not dying, you are not in front of the tiger that you are about to die, Breathe in and out, you are not fucked, You are in a right journey, I am always at your back. Boss, doc, sir- I am out of words to thanked you enough for not kicking me out yet of all my imperfections in this life. Thank you!

My life is so exciting but you have no idea all those bad days that made me feel giving up, made me roll to bed and say- should I cry or laugh ? Again, I choose and had the best angels in this world and I am thankful enough to have them both.

Having persons who never worried about you and believe you that much is truly a blessing!

6. Do not rush to get something! Or else you will loose so much!

- Because I am in rush to get fly to Bangkok to stop my overstay, I lost more than 80 bucks including overhead expenses. Cancel the flight, booked another flight, wrong flight, buy data, call the bank, call a friend, get a taxi, go back again to the airport, talk the airline company, charged me to changed flight,....

Anyway, hands up! Call mommy and Dr. Neher..

what they told me? Exciting life! Breathe! Relax! 

wow! I love you both!

7. Never forget that big problems is equals to big blessings! 

-It may look so dusty messy life now but when you build it one day you will be thankful to all you have been through. It is like building a house- messy, noisy, ugly but when it is done- it is all worth it (credit this thought to Bo Sanchez, one of my favorite author)

To Dingla, Dinah, Ate  Anne, Jane, Joscelyn, Robee, Shwen Zin, Moh2 from Aya Bank- Thank you for all your help these days. Thank you so much!!!!!!!

Yours truly,

Crazy Jit is in trouble but will still roll over! :)


Let's call it a day!