What is First Love? (By Reply 1997)

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First love

The reason why we think first love is beautiful is not because people we first loved were actually handsome or pretty. It is because we we're unconditional, innocent, or a bit stupid at the same time of first love.

And because we know we can never go back to that young, passionate time of our days.

First love is a bit rash without any calculation, we throw ourselves with passion and finally comes to face failure. But it's at the same time dramatic.

It comes with inexplicable feelings that we never get to experience again. So first love becomes the most dramatic moment of our lives.

It's okay to fail. Tragic stories stays longer than happy ever after. It's nice to have the wonderful story as one chapter of one's life.

First love is a period of time that it never comes back. If the next love comes, time has to yield for that new love. It might not as innocent as the first loves but it would be a little more mature, due to the pain suffered with the first love.

A person who dreams of love, is the one who waits. A person who waits can recognize the love when it comes near to him.

After the romance, the real life comes in. Innocence gets dirty, passion gets cold, and youth gets old with cleverness.

So first love becomes part of one's exhausted daily life. That is why first love looks like it can't be accomplished, because no one talks about a successful romance with first loves.

Loving someone is a good thing. Thus, it's okay to be like this. Even though, there isn't a tragic drama in life, but there is a familiarity like an old sweater.

And if gets tired, there is an excitement to reopen it.

Xo

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