7 things you must to do after break ups!
The top 7 list am i going to write are the summation of all the books, magazines, ebooks, blogs that i read on after my first break up! I would consider it as first break up bcs I know that was my first time that I know I love and did my best as I think but end up to break up.
Top 7 things you must to do after break up!
1. Take a shower!
- take a shower is the first you must thing to do to remove all the dirt of your body. Also it helps u to calm down and think very well. Always stay cool and set your mind that its alright. Accept and be thankful that at least it ends before its too late. Think that if you guys had 5 Years then at least its not 6 years that you waste your time. Memories may stay but always remember that its all about mind set. You may hurt bcs you think he is the one and you give everything. Just come on! Take a shower! Remove all heart aches as you removed all stinks and dirt in your body :) (i know its not that easy but at least you do a first step in moving on, always first step is hard- remember that!)
2. Read books that says to how to be happy or any books that feels you good.
- I choose books that it agrees my philosophy like awareness of having dukkha and it feels good. Also you can read books like steps on how to move on and do it by yourself (this is one blog that may help you!, do a comment if it helps you)
3. Don't stuck yourself in your room instead hang out to your friends or to your family!
- this is effective too. You can also go to your friends that you never met long time ago and have a best "how's life" conversation with them. This may open your mind too that its not yet the end of your life. You can ask also for advises from them, it may help you to consider it too.
4. Self control
- yes dear! Self control! Control yourself to remind your mind to not think about him. Remind yourself when you remember him that its okay and that life must go on, that its better at least you have a lot of time to only consider only your feelings and decision without him.
5. Always do something to keep him off in your mind.
- always think ideas or activity to do. The more you are busy the better to keep him off in your mind. Go write books or blogs, go for shopping, foodtrip, camping, surfing, skimboarding, trecking or hiking, put yourself in new career, go for taking photos, enrol yourself in cooking - anything that you think that it makes you happy. No to drugs, alcohols or any short meds that it has a bad effect to your body. Remember to Be the best version in yourself. You attract the best version of guy you like if you yourself is the best version too. If you want loyal guy, ask yourself you have that too.Do not be tired to improve yourself more and more.
6. Think maybe you are not ready yet
- when in relationship it takes a good timing, patience, understanding, trust , honesty, consideration and etc. All of these are maybe you have to enhance and maybe these are the things you are not yet ready to give which maybe the reason why it happened. Or maybe you have another dream that you want to fulfill first like to travel by yourself or to be with your family, anything as long as a goal or dream that you think you don't need him.
7. Never worry yourself that it happened.
- just live! When you expect less, it will come. Don't worry about it. One day you will be thankful why it happened. Never be scared to go for another date. Just as long as u don't hurt anyone and your motive is good and you think you are ready then get em tiger!
I hope the top 7 things u must to do after break ups will work with you. You're to pretty to end your life and be sad! I have a lot of things to share and I am willing to answer your question if u do have. If u have suggestion to, I would be happy to improve my blogs. Always remember that Life is all about choices. Its your life , its now or never! As long as you don't hurt anyone, do whatever makes you happy.
PS. Read my other blogs too. Thank you! X
Hmmmm maybe it's work for you but not for me.
ReplyDeleteI've been tray all of them but it's doesn't work very well on me.
But i pleasure it that's you want to share your experience with every body and i agree with what you do.
That's the only one matter things i see on you (care each other) sharing is caring.
Terimah kasikh Adam!!! Accept and forgive is I can suggest to you Adam. We may hurt at that time but one day we will understand and it makes us more stronger! :) dont worry about the things! Coz every little things will gonna be alright! Have a great day! X
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