Why I Travel instead of.... 7 Reasons!

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Hey guys it is 7:30 am here in Yangon Myanmar (1/22/2019) and I think I would love to now tell you my reasons why I travel instead of ...
 
-Get a job and be stable
-Get a guy and get married
-Make a family and baby
 
And what? Stuck in that race until I die without fulfilling my dream to see the world?
 
Well my sister says,
- one day you want to be with someone
- one day you want to have a baby
- one day you want to settled down
 
 
I won't say all that Idea are bad or not good or I do not care. I can't blame the people who think that  way as I consider that it is the way they care to me. Actually yes traveling alone is a bit sad- when I'm out of painting, when I want the road is easier to share cost in everything, when I want to have someone to laugh on and yes the worst case is WHEN I AM SICK.
 
I will never deny and abort the thought that I would love to do that life and I do respect that matter so I hope you do not get me wrong but at the moment these are my reasons..
 
 
7 Reasons why I travel instead of doing the old pattern
 
1. I do not want to jump into marriage without reassuring that we love each other and we will help each other to build that future without changing the way I think, I act and the way who I am ( Of course vice versa)
 
2. When I travel I appreciate life, the miracles, the people and all that surrounds me that makes me more patient, understanding and kind. (Thank you my GOD OF UNIVERSE FOR ALL AMZING OPPORTUNITIES).
 
3. Every Time I am away from my comfort zone- I am challenged to do more and to get my ass off to patch myself that everything's will gonna be alright - it is just a process.
 
4. I travel because this is what I want to do before I want to die and if I may die one day  I won't regret that I did this- because I am sure what you can carry when you die is not house, cars and even people you loved that would be still alive- but it is the MEMORIES.
 
 
5. Money, Job, love ones or settling down - WILL ALWAYS COME! But traveling is always a choice
 
 
6. I do not think I will do this when I get old - I prefer to do it while I am young, energetic, courageous and sexy hahah as I know No company will say no if I will apply because young employee can do fast work and very teachable.
 
 
7. Lastly, I feel that the Universe is abundant of love in all kinds of people. It made me realize that all words will be more meaningful if you yourself will experienced it like yes patience.
 
 
 
To end this, let me say yes you can still do what you wanted one day because you think you have more time to spend but then what  ironic in this life is that we do not know when will be our death is ...
 
 
 
 
I wish I make sense..
 
 
 
 
Truly yours,
 
 
 
Rhodegette Joyce Aldave Idul
 
 
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This photo was taken by ate ann vidal when we arrived in Phnom Penh, Cambodia 2015 after a not long journey Hanoi down to Saigon to Phnom Penh and we are about to jump to a bus to Sihanoukville Cambodia in 6 to 8 hours journey
 
 
 
 
In this blog I would dedicate this to this couple Ate Ann and Bob.
Te ann, thank you or all the journey we had that in the end we both have each other. Thank you and thank you for inspiring me to do what I can do when I am still able to do it- I will see Bagan today because I am out of doubt because u are the best ate/best friend to tell me to do it before you will regret it and be patience that everything will fall into places- who knows the opportunities are there- you gotta feel good and attract positive energy so there will no blockage to any opportunities, that everything has a reason and will be okay in a right time. I love you ate ann! :)
 
To Bobette, I know you are now in heaven and we miss you! Thank you for all the lessons you have taught us. Thank you for loving us in your ways and thank you for giving me a shelter when I need most both u and ate ann are the best friendship I have ever have. It was the best because there were times that hate, anger, jealousy are there but then in the end we made us to be kind even we are all hurt along the way in some circumstances. Thank you and let me allow to say this - u have always part in my heart. Rest in peace Bobette James Dean, I am sure the angels are rejoicing for your coming back! :) 
 
 

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